I am careful in writing about such stuff especially I am married. The last thing I want this blogging to do is to get me into unnecessary trouble.
Then again, fear should never be a force to reckon in decision making. So, here I am, exploring the topic.
I think it is possible to love 2 different persons at the same time but with different intensity. Some reckon that it is not possible simply because they cannot do that or they never experience that. Yet, we know that one’s belief nor one’s experience is never a concluding factor in answering the question.
Many will say it is impossible not because they really think it is impossible. Rather they are fearful that if their stand is not on the same side of morality, they will be judge differently. Others will think that justifying their non conventional answer is a tiring journey to embark on. Afterall, it is always easier to deny the possibilities to the above question, you get peace of the ear and remove you from all suspicion if you are in a relationship.
Yet, I think it is possible to love 2 persons at the same time but that do not equal to me entertaining the possibility nor agreeing to it. I guess love is not that exclusive as much as we would like to think it is.
I’ve replied to this type of question in the past and I do believe someone can love 2 people at the same time. I also think that one can love 2 people with the same intensity but it would obviously not be as powerful as if that person loved only one person. Or at least it’s the way it’s been with me.